"Sweetie, remember when R-- was four years old, and she so wanted to help out in the garden?"
"Mmm-hmmm,"
"Remember how she decided to pull out weeds and she pulled out all my beautiful kale plants that were just starting to get to a decent size?"
"Oh, yeah. You were sad about that. But she watered your garden that day, too."
"What a sweetie. She'll never be that age again."
"Thank heavens."